Therefore as the Church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the Church, and gave Himself for it; (Ephesians 5:24-25)
But those outside the family of GOD, who have never been born again, while they may imitate this action for a time; they can never truly accomplish the will of GOD for they don't know Him. GOD calls all sinners, those separated from Him to repent. Surrender to Him on His terms and be saved to start on the journey of Life with the Master; then you can begin to learn to love others and be subject to the authorities according to His Word.
I urge you to respond to whatever GOD is saying to you today. And if you are not married, love and submit to GOD and let Him provide your spouse while you remain pure until that person comes along.
In Christ,
Jefferson A. Sweet